segunda-feira, março 02, 2009

Ok, next.*


Receiving a text message at 3.00 am can be damn good. But it can also be pretty bad when you suddenly realize that it wasn´t for you: he switched your phone number. You better turn your phone off after midnight - it might be disgusting to know, like a slap on your face, that the person that you have been seeing in the past 4 weeks was spending the night with another woman.

Ok, no big deal – if he wasn’t the guy that you finally decided to give a chance. Before that, you have been very clear to the Universe: you don´t want bad guys anymore. This one seemed to be really nice, tender, handsome, a good friend. You believed him. You´ve bet all your emotional-money on him, and you could swear to the Gods: this man will never hurt you.

But he did. What you most feared finally happened: you gave a shot, and it failed. How keep trying over and over, when all your beliefs are teared apart? How can you get together the tinny little parts of the hope to get enchanted again by someone that is not your parents, or maybe your shrink?

That´s fine. It just happened. And, probably, it isn´t the first, and neither the last time, that someone will break your heart. Just another guy, another scene, tearing you apart. You love, you get hurt, and then you keep moving.

Ok, next.

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*Mais da filosofia-ok-next aqui.

6 comentários:

Arya disse...

Hi Ferreira,
I'm from Indonesia, greeting from far away country..
It's to be here at your cute blog..
Thank you

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Luli disse...

I'm being charged of not appling the "OK, next" philosofy at all... but for us, it is exactly how you posted. It is a need, not a whish to say "ok, next", and with a bleeding heart.

I'm sorry for this experience described above and, just for the record, me too have just had an experience where, after long time of emocional winter, I believed I was on the spring again, but guess what? I wasn't. That hurts. We just don't have anything to say exept for "ok, next".

Thank you for your recognition to my blog, dear friend :-)

Fiore. disse...

Sometimes we ignore the masks Honey, in spite of, we know they´re there, and that´s what really hurts…

Isabela Guerra disse...

Dear Nana... vou speakar in português... hihihihi
amore, NUNCA um post seu deu tão certo com meu momento atual... NUNCA...

Hoje amanheci pedindo a Deus , algum sinal de que isso passaria, esta insegurança, este não saber... este vácuo... Pedi alguma luz.. alguma coisa... e pra quem pede certo... Deus atende...
O sinal, a resposta, o significado do que sinto veio em forma de palavras escritas por vc...de algo sentido por vc... Finalmente FEZ SENTIDO... It´s over!!! E tá na hora de encarar o "OK, NEXT!!!"

SAUDADES MASTER BLASTER BABE!!!

Isabela Guerra disse...

Dear Nana... vou speakar in português... hihihihi
amore, NUNCA um post seu deu tão certo com meu momento atual... NUNCA...

Hoje amanheci pedindo a Deus , algum sinal de que isso passaria, esta insegurança, este não saber... este vácuo... Pedi alguma luz.. alguma coisa... e pra quem pede certo... Deus atende...
O sinal, a resposta, o significado do que sinto veio em forma de palavras escritas por vc...de algo sentido por vc... Finalmente FEZ SENTIDO... It´s over!!! E tá na hora de encarar o "OK, NEXT!!!"

SAUDADES MASTER BLASTER BABE!!!