Receiving a text message at 3.00 am can be damn good. But it can also be pretty bad when you suddenly realize that it wasn´t for you: he switched your phone number. You better turn your phone off after midnight - it might be disgusting to know, like a slap on your face, that the person that you have been seeing in the past 4 weeks was spending the night with another woman.
Ok, no big deal – if he wasn’t the guy that you finally decided to give a chance. Before that, you have been very clear to the Universe: you don´t want bad guys anymore. This one seemed to be really nice, tender, handsome, a good friend. You believed him. You´ve bet all your emotional-money on him, and you could swear to the Gods: this man will never hurt you.
But he did. What you most feared finally happened: you gave a shot, and it failed. How keep trying over and over, when all your beliefs are teared apart? How can you get together the tinny little parts of the hope to get enchanted again by someone that is not your parents, or maybe your shrink?
That´s fine. It just happened. And, probably, it isn´t the first, and neither the last time, that someone will break your heart. Just another guy, another scene, tearing you apart. You love, you get hurt, and then you keep moving.
*Mais da filosofia-ok-next aqui.